Today is the first time i've been on this website, i cant beleive how many people are going through the same thing its such a relief to know that im not going mad and my suspicions are correct, i can identify with so many people thats what it is, this bloody coil, what is the alternative then, i am really wary of all contraception now. I have the one with hormones, does the one without make a difference, should i consider changing to that one?? or should i just get sterilised, i just dont know??