I am not married but i was engaged recently and the effects of the Merina has change my life so much.I thought i was losing my mind!I will have had this thing 4 a year in June and i have gradually become a dif person and am so depressed sometimes esp. recently.I tend 2 have irrational reactions 2 intense situations and i often find myself not in the "mood" at all anymore.We aren't even able 2 talk about small stuff anymore w/out me gettin depressed or extremely upset w him.He has called our engagement off he has become so frustrated w me.I just found this sight like 2 days ago and it has given us some hope again.Wishing you the best also!God bless you and sorry 4 ur tragedy.