Thank you for your advice! I agree, I think 3 years is much better. There are many resons why I want my kids spaced but the main reason is so that I can just enjoy motherhood for as long as possible and give them all a lot of one on one attention. My sister in law has all 5 of her kids a year or a little over a year apart each and she says she wishes they were spaced more. For me I am just slow at how I do things in life. There is no rush for me. I certainly do want to cleanse and give my body a rest in between babies. :)