You're one of the lucky ones if your facial hair is blonde! My sister and I both have the same problem of long thick-ish hair on our faces (sideburns, mustache, et all), and she doesn't do anything about it because she's blonde. Sure, if you look closely you can see that she's hairy, but honestly, people don't notice it. People don't even notice mine (I "fix my face" every day using a female electric razor from Noxema). Don't get down (I know I'm being a hypocrite when I say this because I cry about it, too...), but try to think about it this way: People like you for who you are. I know that I'm worried about people changing their opinion of me when/IF they find out about my facial hair, but I've told my roommates, and they never cared! Just try to remain positive! :) If I were you- I mean, I don't really know the details of your situation, but I'll try to be general- I would trim my hair with scissors or use an electric razor if it really bothers you. I wouldn't shave just because of the irritation it can cause the skin. Maybe this Epicare thing works (I might try it one of these days), but just try to be happy with yourself. Try to perfect your character/personality and people will see your smile and your twinkling eyes instead of your facial hair! (I'm not kidding!!!!)
Best of Luck! :)