YES!!!!!!! I certainly do! And, thinking in pictures is grand!
What I am feeling about this particular situation is that there is a ton of denial and the "healthy" kid who is behaving within "normal" boundaries is being utterly left by the wayside. So much focus and rage is centered upon the child with the issues that the stepmother is either unable or unwilling to step back, look at the entire picture, and insist that the father of the child take up his responsibilities for his daughter.
You've made some very good points with your cerebral pictures!