You are right about limited choices. Also, I agree about if they don't like it, they can move on.
I took a sabbatical from dating to figure ME out and why I chose what I chose, when it came to men. At any rate, I have learned much and I have learned that if a man cannot accept me as I am (as I now accept me) and see the worth in me (as I now do) and value that, then he is not the man I wish to spend my time with.
I am trusting that when I decide to set my sights on dating again, it will be easier because I know myself and what I will and will not accept anymore.