Bobknight...you are absolutely correct that I allowed ignorance to disrupt my focus of these forums. After my attempts (and, the numerous attempts by others) to direct #17975 to a number of online resources where he could educate himself about the dynamics of domestic violence and abuse, and his obvious refusal to do so, I allowed myself to become irritated with messages that were specifically posted with an flagrant intent to ridicule, belittle, humiliate, incite, and degrade other human beings who are accessing these forums to seek help and information.
I won't allow myself to fall into that juvenile trap, again, I assure you.