And furthermore...

Listen, don't take her backlash personally, want2. She knows what space she's in and she's scared - we've all been there.

My hope for her is that she'll finally get sick and tired of being sick and tired and do something proactive to save her Self. But, we know that we cannot force someone to heal themselves - they have to want it FOR themselves.

I was also fearful of starting a new life - I had no marketable skills, no finances, no housing, no family support, etc. It was very scary for me. And, I was sick all of the time. I could have used any number of excuses to remain in that environment.

Well, don't you know that I began getting healthier the very day that I moved out?!?! Yes, that's a fact - I began the physical healing almost immediately. Now, the emotional healing took quite a bit longer, but it is still in full-swing.

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