Re: The Answers Are Within You

I hope some men will give you some answers that will help you, but from reading your post, I can tell you this. No one is going to be able to tell you how to get well. There is no magic potion that will heal you. There is nothing special about Oklahoma that will automatically improve your health. All the answers lie within you, and it is up to you to not only discover the answers, but to find the discipline to regain your health.

When you decide feeling better is worth not giving in to the desire to masterbate, then you may see some improvement. You say you cannot stop, of course you can, you just don't want to. Is a few minutes of pleasure worth the misery and problems with your genitals. When you decide that getting better is the most important thing, then you will stop doing the thing which is hurting you.

The same goes for eating. When you decide that nothing tastes as good as being healthy feels, then you will stop gorging on garbage. Don't blame the difficulty in getting to a health food store, when you want to eat right, then you will. Get some of those Naked Smoothies at your Walmart, stock up on fresh veggies. No body is holding you down forcing you to eat junk, that is your decision. You are responsible for every bite that goes in your mouth.

The key to health and happiness is in your hand. You can ask for help to show you the way, but you must be the one who takes the steps that will complete the journey and open the door to your dreams and aspirations. Stop playing the blame game, stop acting like you are helpless. Get a vision of what you want your life to be in the near future then get busy making that vision a reality. When you do that and take both control and responsibility for your life and health, then you will experience freedom that will allow you to soar. Right now you are still teathered to the earth, a slave to your lusts and appetite.