I hope some men will give you some answers that will help you, but from reading your post, I can tell you this. No one is going to be able to tell you how to get well. There is no magic potion that will heal you. There is nothing special about Oklahoma that will automatically improve your health. All the answers lie within you, and it is up to you to not only discover the answers, but to find the discipline to regain your health.

When you decide feeling better is worth not giving in to the desire to masterbate, then you may see some improvement. You say you cannot stop, of course you can, you just don't want to. Is a few minutes of pleasure worth the misery and problems with your genitals. When you decide that getting better is the most important thing, then you will stop doing the thing which is hurting you.

The same goes for eating. When you decide that nothing tastes as good as being healthy feels, then you will stop gorging on garbage. Don't blame the difficulty in getting to a health food store, when you want to eat right, then you will. Get some of those Naked Smoothies at your Walmart, stock up on fresh veggies. No body is holding you down forcing you to eat junk, that is your decision. You are responsible for every bite that goes in your mouth.

The key to health and happiness is in your hand. You can ask for help to show you the way, but you must be the one who takes the steps that will complete the journey and open the door to your dreams and aspirations. Stop playing the blame game, stop acting like you are helpless. Get a vision of what you want your life to be in the near future then get busy making that vision a reality. When you do that and take both control and responsibility for your life and health, then you will experience freedom that will allow you to soar. Right now you are still teathered to the earth, a slave to your lusts and appetite.

have you tried rubbing vitamin e oil into the irritated tissue? get some vitamin e capsules, the kind you take orally. squeeze the vitamin e out and rub on all irritated skin. you can mix it with jojoba oil, that makes it more fluid and easier to rub into your skin. i think you can get vitamin e at walmart for pretty cheap. its best if the bottle says "mixed tocopherols"

Vitamin E oil might be the best thing if it soothes the irritation.

Is it nearly time for your parasite cleanse, Kevin?

Kevin.

Stop jacking off and start getting a life. So many people on this forum are trying to help you and what are you doing? Beating off and eating pork rinds?

I think you have depression. Seriously. Chronic masturbation is a sign of Depression -- your mind is craving the endorphin and serotonin boost of orgasm. (This is why so many anti-depressants have the side-effect of making people non-orgasmic.) There is a simple solution at your fingertips, if you will just move them away from your crotch!

I promise you, if you treat the spiritual part of your problem/s by: making an effort to be helpful at your job, being GRATEFUL that you have a job, taking extra special time to be thankful about your life (i.e., be helpful to your roommate, do nice things for co-workers, write some thank-you e-mails to people like Hopinso who have given to your sorry thankless whiny ass their TIME and ATTENTION, -- these things are what constitute living a spiritual life, not going to church, mean. Being connected with others and doing things to further those connections and be of service, rather than lying around lamenting life with your pecker in your hand -- apparently making things even more painful physically, too -- anyway, start by doing this stuff, and you will FEEL better and your PHYSICAL problems will go away. It is that easy! Really!

Remember, treat the spiritual, and the mental and physical will follow! The universe is looking after you and brought you to Curezone, when it sounds like you could have ended up in a much worse place!

Take heart and ask for connection to others, and freedom from the bondage of self-obsession. Your hand on your dick, as you say, is the leash that enslaves you....

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