Re: The most confused man in the world, I am.

Tenderness and care
You know your feelings-she probably has some idea
You are bursting at the seams
and she?
Is not there yet?
But if you woo her tenderly with respect she will appreciate the fact that you value her
Compliment her, and laugh and have fun with her

I love humor in a man, and one that cooks
Can you invite her over and cook for her
little bottle of wine
good music
Romance...

When I know a man will take it slow and lovingly
I am jello-melt me
drink me
Taste me
whoops!

you get the idea

Some times testosterone and waiting a long time
makes it difficult
But if you will value her as a person
over and above your needs
she will understand your care for her on the soul level