Here are a couple of links with some info:

http://www.adrenalfatigue.org/index.php

http://www.drrind.com/scorecardmatrix.asp

these are reference charts that may prove helpful in determining if some of what you both mention is related to adrenal fatigue.

Very important to review your diet as a starting point. Diet sodas, and Sugar free candies are poison pure and simple.

Also recomend you read this article on Sea Salt :

//www.curezone.org/foods/saltcure.asp

and would direct you to the Ask Moreless site: http://www.askmoreless.com/home

to read up on some inexpensive ways to begin making postive changes in your health lifestyles that may really help to begin healing.

There is also a forum //www.curezone.org/forums/f.asp?f=740 where he and many others answer question to guide you through healing protocols on re-balancing your body's chemistry.

Good going on your quest...

MadArt (ist)