Re: Where is the support? Neagative Nelly

Yep......all I do is try to lose the weight. I fail more often than not. But, I try every day. It is so hard to erase the things that have been drilled into us since we were young. "You would be so pretty"........Oh, and here is one...."you could be anything you wanted to be if you just lose the weight". Don't get me wrong, I do take the blame for some of this, but, not all of it. People just don't understand unless they have been in the same fat shoes as me. I can be an armchair psychologist for anyone, but, that doesn't mean I know squat about it unless I have gone through it myself. You and me? We just have to keep plugging away and eventually we may get all this right. I just know we can never give up our quest to lose the weight. Right?