You said some things that I can really relate to. I also share dreams with my husband. I had never even thought that that and the veil were connected. I also have very, very, strange and real dreams from time to time. My veil was also destroyed at birth. That's ok 'cause I can't really think of an outfit it would have matched. I also have a hard time around people. Just uncomfortable sometimes, I don't know if I make them that way or they just feel that way around me. Anyway, I am glad you found this thread.