he told me he wants to break up

This morning he wakes me up to say he wants to have a serious talk with me. He says he just not happy and wants to break up. I guess I shouldn't be shocked but I am very upset about it. He is the first guy I actually wanted to marry and have kids with. I'm pretty devastated.

I really can't believe he is going to do it. I have told him that we can work things out and that he is just going through a phase... he has been acting very unhappy lately. I guess I always think everything can be worked out.

I wish I would have had your advice earlier Parismatch. One problem is that I make a good amount of money more than him and he contributes to the bills as best he can. I haven't been working for a few months and money has been tight so it has caused more pressure to be on him to pay bills. He really has strong feelings about owing money and ALWAYS pays off his credit card every month.

He says he can't go to the states with me b/c of his father. He works with his father and he is the only one that is helping his dad. His dad is an #%!?@. All his other kids live in the states or barely talks to him.

I'm really confused as what to do. I guess I can't stop him from leaving me and maybe shouldn't even try. I never loved someone so much... it really hurts.
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