Pre-nup is least of your problems

Dearest Paulista (aka #23817?),

I looked over your other posts over the last 6 months and they are filled with your own concerns over this man, your relationship and your upcoming marriage. I think you know the answers (deep down in your heart) to your own questions. I think you know what to do, but you know it will be agonizing and painful. May I just remind you of some of the things you have said about this guy over the months? Remember, these are your OWN thoughts and feelings...

-"he has committment issues" (that is why you have been dating for 7 years)
-"he doesn't want to talk about the wedding" (hmmmm)
-"BF has playboy buddy"
-"lets his buddy speak rudely to me"
-"his mother badmouthed me and he didn't defend me"
-"he has total control over the relationship"
-"he has called me 'bitch' and 'stupid'
-"he doesn't make me feel secure"
-"he is not generous with his money to me"
-"he resents me tremendously"
-"he looks at other women"
-"he doesn't stand by me when I have a problem"
-"he wants to spend his weekends racing"
-"I feel jelous of him when he travels"

There's more, but I think I've made my point. This is not a healthy match, Paulista. This is not what you want your girls to see you go through. Think long and hard about this.

Good luck to you!


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