Do I deserve better than what is being offered to me?
If the tables were turned, I being the wealthier one in the relationship and I truly loved this man would I have him sign a pre-nup?
My bet is if you walked away today, what you really need in a relationship will come your way. But first you have to work on your self image. Strong people gravitate to strong people...there are two weak people in the relationship and neither one of you is happy. If he was happy and SECURE: What prenup???
Decide what it is you REALLY KNOW YOU DESERVE and go from there. Do yourself and your daughter a favor: DON'T SETTLE!