But who is anybody to say at what age people stop voluntarily to getting/giving oral sex and that she "should't feel that's her right"??? This person as well as anybody, has a right to like or expect anything which makes them happy, up until whatever age they darn well please. What a horrible restriction to place on somebody based on someone's own subjective experience. I agree this may not be the most important consideration in breaking or keeping a relationship going, but it's nobody's business to tell someone else they shouldn't expect something pleasurable because of their age.