Re: very good job 1409!:)

Matt:
I just re-read this:"
When I was on a date with her 4 months ago, I said that I wasn't going to be some plutonic friend nor was I pursuing a relationship. She agreed to get physical and have an overnight date. Yet a few days before that she came up with an excuse just honoring the going to the movie part of the date saying that she allotted only 4 hours to our date. Just obnoxious in my opinion."

Why are you doing this?
What you want from her is just sex?


Let me get this, you do not want a relationship with her but you want have sex with her....

Do you think that is something she can agree?

Most of women want a fullfilling relationship with love and stability and security..

No wonder why she does not want to talk to you..

She is a human being, she has feelings, and the right to have a good relationship and love...

She also has the right to say NO..

If you cannot offer that to her, let her go.. If she lies, You do not deserve that, let her go... Move on...

If you really love her, be honest an tell her what you really want..