Oh, wrote the timing of her weight loss incorrectly. I meant to say that when she was finally thin last year after being 30-50 LBs overweight she came up with excuses and avoided me after a 3 month relationship that she initially insisted on. I also lived 3000 miles away for a few years and after us dating for 3 months she came up with all kinds of excuses to cancel a date. Maybe a coicidence but my gut tells me no.