and BTW, please don't tell me "it's ok for a man, but not for a woman"
I am totally against that thinking. I don't have the yearning to spice up my sex life.. I don't think it is ok for me to fantasize about other girls.. my girlfriend really does it for me.. all the way.. as cliche as it may sound, I want to make love to her and not have sex. That does it for me
I am sure I am not alone when that person finds the right girl or guy