Puhlease---your use of curse words is appalling, if she was just a regular bitch?? How crass.. I just have one question --Wont you at times be fantasizing about other women (in every sense of the word) if you two were married?? If not then you would never need p 0 r n again correct?? It almost makes me smile to see a guy feel like this as this is how us women feel alot of the times--a boyfriend with a computer full of p 0 r n is not a turn on. Take it from me.


Jenkins

Wow..

Is your girlfriend happy with you and the relationship? From my point of view, If I was unhappy in my relationship..I would keep contact with other guys. So perhaps you need to ask her how she feels..if she is happy etc..

Unless you're from the streets (you're definitely not), you're a total freakin'wannabe. You better let go of those silly illusions 'cause when that trend goes out the window you won't exactly be showing of your young photographs like the ex-hippies or disco-heads do. By the way, this letter is coming from a 30 year old but I've scene a lot of 20 year olds and you seem a little ignorant.
I've also seen many good kids out who were born in the 80's there and they're cool and alright. You aren't on of them.

I grew up in the suburbs in an upper middle class family and my pigmentation and demeanor is as casper-white as it gets. But I lived in ghettos and it just makes me LAUGH seeing you wimps trying to act all ghetto. Let go of the fantasy bro. No, actually, don't, it makes it easier for me to score with women.

This rant has nothing to do with your question but if you can be insensitive, then I can be FACTUAL and reciprocate your 'tard-ness'. I'm fed up with morons like you. I don't mind low IQ but I hate abrasive low IQ.

Matt

Whoa! Call me psychic, but I seem to be sensing a little hostility in the above responses. =)

May I take this time to state that while the original post's language and phrasing was - questionable - this is a support forum and that we would like to try to keep the emphasis on support. Ok, so maybe questionable is too generous, but I hope we can get back on track and either ignore the style or just ignore the post and hope for better in the future.

Marco0, may I suggest that street slang and referring to females as "whores," "bitches," and "girlys" is not wise, not factual, and will get you nowhere worth going in life? It will also most likely not get you a decent, long lasting relationship as any female who accepts such terms for herself tends to have either a lack of maturity or deep self esteem issues. I would be *extremely* against encouraging any female to be involved in a relationship with a male who routinely used such words to describe the opposite sex. They show no respect At ALL for women and are only *cool* among boys who are trying too hard to impress other boys.

Sorry if that sounds like judging or dissing you, but we *are* judged by the way we speak and communicate, especially online. All anyone reading your post has to go by is what you say and how you say it. By choosing to use the language and phrasing you did, you are not impressing anyone with how "cool" you are. In fact, the impression you give is entirely UNcool and is one of immaturity, insincerity, and disrespect for women, disrespect for people in general, and disrespect for yourself. If you wish for people to respect you and your feelings, as you state, to "feel my tears here," then you must show respect for them. It is simply how it is.

If you are serious about seeking good advice about an adult situation, and not just trying to stir things up or be "funny" (if so, the joke didn't work), I strongly suggest you work more on learning how to express yourself without resorting to what your "boyz" apparently and incorrectly think of as "cool" language which actually makes you appear as, well, childish. I'm pretty positive that your career counselor would tell you much the same thing if you were interviewing for a job. Sorry if that upsets your view of things, but welcome to the rest of the real world.

May we all find what we need.