well...........if you lived in my area you would know that it's not so much of a matter of settling then my selection of men, they are all a different version of the same man. They are taught to lie to women from day one, so I never know if the person they seem to be is the person they really are. They are too hung up on looking cool to be real, or soooo good at playing the game that I just think they're too good to be true........I am destined to be alone I think.