Re: MEMO TO ALL UNMARRIED WOMEN: IT JUST MUST BE SAID!

good post!

i'd like to add to it...not all of us settle, some of us end up being considered 'snobs' or 'bitches' cause we refuse to settle, and cause we know what we want and take it. :-)

it's a double edged sword.

nevertheless, i enjoy my singleness. at 31 a lot of my friends have been married and divorced at least once! i see too many people seek out happiness on the outside without taking care of their own self first.

... but like everything in relationships there is always another side of the coin; how can you know what is right till you live it? so many people wear masks or just simply don't know what they want - how can one know? someone can judge all they want but will never find what is right if they are too afraid to make mistakes. we are on this forum cause we are making mistakes...and learning. it's all good :-)