First of all I could care less if you read or answer any my posts ! You seem to take things to personally and confuse the issues! You accused me of indiscretion once before and I wasn't even refering to you! And no I don't I'm just saying she is not being up front with us and allowing everyone to try to interpate what the hell really happened and leading us all down her self centered path. I don't believe she came here for advice but to coddled and wants to have everbody tell her how terrible men are and the poor little innocent thing can't or won't really devulge the truth because she is not sure or something! Right! Grog