Thank you for the encouragement! I appreciate all of your responses! The most frustrating thing about all of this is when I try to help him with his condition, he is starting to put up a wall and thinks that things are too complex...he told me too much information will make him have a panic attack. and since we don't live toghther, he would have to be responsible for doing the stuff, even if I lay out everything for him. so i'm trying to figure out how to handle this