Well to start off with I am feeling so confused. My husband gives me bad vibes sometimes and I don't know how to take them. First,he is a Police Officer and works 12 hours a day for 4 days...He rotates 4 days on 4 days off. The vibes he gives me are that he isn't interested in me anymore and when he gets off work all he does is watch TV and goes to sleep. We very seldom communicate unless it is something he is interested in, for instance Nascar Racing. All he does is sleep and watches TV. He doesn't hardly ever talk to me. This makes me feel like he isn't interested or either bored. I know 12 hours are long days, but my days are long and lonely too.When his friends or parents call or come over he is up and perking and talking but after they leave he goes back to what he always does..sleep or watch TV. Second, he is ALWAYS looking at other women when we are together and ALWAYS talking to other women, not job related. This makes me feel very insecure when he does this. Third, we VERY RARELY have sex. This is July 31 and the last time we had sex was in May. I am 29 and he is 35. This also makes me wonder about him. When we do have sex it is for ONLY a short time. And even then, when we have sex, his you know what goes down even after 5 minutes ALL THE TIME! Fourth, we had discussed having another child and we both wanted it. I went to the doctor to help get me pregnant,because we had tried and tried and nothing came of it, and we spent LOTS of money and the doctor told him what he had to do, like wear boxers, etc. well he doesn't even do that. This makes me feel he doesn't want a child now. Keeping in mind we have sex EVERY NOW AND THEN...I'd say every month or every other month. So here I am lonely and confused seeking others advice.