lol!! Ive had the dream thing too. How frustrating. I think Someones not of this worlds playing a joke on us because its pretty much not funny to me. I think my problem is not trusting, and hating not being in control of things. I think it would suprise me if it were something that im not familiar with. It would really help if one of you ladies would walk us through the feelings. come on all you major league hitters!! Its awful neither of us are able to bunt. (have an orgasm on our own). I had a girlfriend in high school offer to stimulate "my person" just to show me how to carry on, but I was too bashful :-) and thought she was nuts at the time but would have certainly appreciated a map.