Yes!! Experience in the world will help you to see how Unique every one is....and how black and white ideas just don't cut it. (ha - like the one I just uttered! eeek. haha) See the 'midpoint' between two extremes (and this doesn't mean average! no!....Life is more mysterious than those black and white ideas...(I know, I started out a VERY B&W person)
And, yes, you've got it ---- Express Your Self! Free your expression...(even singing and humming helps to get things flowing that way)....