I completely agree with you. However, and I guess I left this part out, we have since been talking about not only getting back together but also getting married. But I am having a hard time accepting that after expressing all of her feelings and emotions that she still had for me, and agreeing that we would still see each other, that she would go back and be with someone else. She says she wasn't cheating, and I see it differently. When she was here I had a girl call me at 1:30am to come over. My ex got jealous and I assured her that I would not call or see this girl again. I guess all I am rambling on and on about boils down to one question. Was what she did cheating and am I wrong for having such a hard time getting past it.