Re: A big fat mess.

gerah2o, don't take mtnndeww to seriously. i don't believe he even read your post and his reply was his standard reply to most women. mtnndeww is entrenched in cartisian dualism so everything is black and white to him.fact is i beleive he was there when des carte made the deal with the pope to seperate mind and body. however he is consistent which makes him right occasionally.but not this time! do not fret over his message. you sound sincere and strong willed when you set your mind to it,and if your hubby doesn't come around soon i believe he is the one with the problem! but what is it? hang in there. i believe you are doing all the right things. grog Tweet