Re: Scapegoat

I support you in your desire to get away form your abusers! I was also physically and emotionally abused by my family.

The way I "got out" was that I told them I might be able to have a relationship with them if they would go to therapy. They chose not to go to therapy, so the decision was really theirs. That way I didn't have to feel any guilt about it, not that I should anyway!

I feel so much happier without them!!!!!!! I miss having a family, but then again, I missed having a family when I used to be incontact with them, too. I never really had a family as far as I was concerned!

Since then, I have made my onw little 'family" of friends, and my two wonderful little cats. I feel much better about myself now and I am much happier.
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