I agree with the following two thoughts, 100% entirely and wholeheartedly!!!
>>>Someone who reads your thoughtful response, UNLESS they have the foundation you have--GOOD COMMUNICATION--it may not apply.
>>>So, thoughtful advice....but only for those who have the basic foundation. For those who don't, it's going to be like trying to build on sand.....it won't work.
Without solid, complete, open, caring communication, my post and many of the aspects of it, are totally invalid.