Re: Do I have to accept my fiance's dislike for giving OS?

Denied sexual pleasure can add a lot of pressure to a relationship. If you feel like you will spend the rest of your life dreaming about it and frustrated, then chances are that at some point you will feel like you are going to burst and give in to finding someone else. Like the previous poster said, once you find someone else and you are getting it, the emotional charge added to the experience will make you dislike being with the person who has been denying you all this time.
Life sometimes gives us these really hard places where we have to make very difficult decisions. Either life with a person you know and trust, but with the constant yearning for sexual fulfillment, or sexual fulfillment at the expense of a good and lasting relationship.
In arriving at your final decision, I would carefully weigh your options based on your age, temperament and ability to strike up another rewarding relationship. Some say sex isn't everything, and for sure it isn't, but by the same token, life without it when you know you could be having it, begins to feel like no life at all. This is where so many divorces come in. Divorce is not such a terrible thing for someone who is young and childless, but once children enter the picture, it is more than just your life involved. How do you think you would feel knowing that you are divorcing your husband and leaving your children with a broken home because you weren't getting oral sex? You may not be able to identify with this situation yet, but when you become a parent, you a thinking person like you certainly appear to be, it will cross your mind. Think hard honey, you don't want to mess up the rest of your life for a bad decision one way or the other.
Please let us know what you do.