I can tell you're a smart woman by dumping this lousy lay toot sweet. Listen, MOST guys don't know how to do it, that's a fact of life. Nobody ever really teaches guys how to slow-bang a woman into orgasm. You can blame it on the school system, or Bush, or the Iraqi conflict...but really, it comes down to "taking responsibility for your own lack of education". Whatever topic I don't know about, I go and find out. I make it my mission to be an expert in that field. Takes some effort. Takes some discipline. Most guys don't know where the clitoris is located, but I bet they know the entire statistical matchup between the Patriots vs. the Eagles. Go figure. Hang in there, I realize it's an uphill battle, but 25% of the guys out there know what to do. You've just got to wait your turn at bat.