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LOL, no hon, I'm not Muslim. In fact I'm a very regular name over in the christian forum. Oh oh, maybe my name mislead you, I am female hee hee, and my real name IS Ali.
Please don't feel bad, I have enjoyed reading what you've written, it helps me to understand better. You know I can really sympathize with how you feel, believe it or not. I used to have the same kinds of arguments with my mother over having a basis for faith. Ultimately though, there is really no way that you can convince someone of something as deep and personal as the convictions of faith by means of arguments or debates.
Contrary to the nature of debates, I love people, all kinds of people. Muslim and middle eastern women are some of the most intelligent and sensitive women I have met, so it seems rare that you wouldn't find other sisters of like mind. Perhaps it's the particular people you know or the town you live in, who knows? I still wish motherof4 were around because she seems very bright and knowledgeable.
It is not true that there are no strong facts to support christianity. There is much solidity, except I will certainly not try to convince you of that on your forum. :-)
When and if you ever feel so inclined, bring up your questions or challenges to the religious debate forum. Although I warn you, it's not for the fainthearted, but at least you won't get bored!
Many blessings to you - Alikat