I want to thank all of you for responding and answering my questions. I asked not because I am searching for new beliefs but as an explanation for certain christians behavior I have run into in the past. I also did not ask because I think that I am unacceptable to G-d but as to why some christians have said this to me. I know that every religion (including Jews) has its people on a path that fall short of representing the truth of what the religion teaches. Ideas are often misrepresented when we are discussing are faith. I thought this forum would be able to provide a good cross section of christian opinion and it has done that :)