If we find ourself reacting to others instead of responding to the needs of someone or a situation then we may be reacting from fear, anger and judgement. We may even blame others for what we project on others.. Our world-view may be a mirror of what we are struggling with inside ourselves? If I overreact to you or others it may be that I have things to work out of myself and if you get in the way I may cause harm so forgive me when I do not respond from a place of love. I you see a negative reaction from me then I am still a work in progress.