I hear you loud and clear.
That very issue also concerns me - I often find myself reading the debate forum, and wondering why we don't have the same activity in our support forum.
I think what happens is that we come from very different backgrounds and beliefs, and the disscussions can easily get heated - especially when you have people telling other people what to believe and how to act as a Christian. Then it gets personal and attacking. (that is what I see in the debate forum anyway)
I would love to have more fellowship and support here, where we can focus clearly on living the life of a Christian according to the Bible and support each other in doing so with testimony and helpful thoughts and teaching.