Seems she should know better to push peoples buttons like that ythere is a thing called passive aggression and people who have been abused somehow fall into that trap without really knowing what their doing or that their doin it! The bar seen can bring out the worst in everybody and and if you two want to continue your relationship you both need to address your individual issues your jealousy and pushin your buttons takes two ya know. You seem aware of your problem at least! Does she? Grog