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for me personally sleeping with someone is not to be taken lightly - if u are with someone and u say u love em, then it must come from the heart - it has to have meaning and not just say it to get laid.
further-more if u are with someone and u say u love him and then sleep with someone totally diff then that person u with dont deserve that and they are better off with out u.
u say u had been broken off with each other for 2 months when u slept with ur ex, well that sounds familiar cos my gf did the same thing, but i understand cos we were off, then out of the blue one day she calls me up and though i myself had recently started to date another girl - i found o way of dropping all that i had and going back to her - until last night, i got drunk and jealous of some idiot, and lost it. i saw her talkin to some guy and went over, they were at a table with other firneds of ours there too - i asked her whats up, she told me to go away and pushed me, i walked away pissed off, then when she didnt come to me and the guy was still there i went to her and pushed the guy away and pushed her too.
i found out after that she was actually trying to tell him to go away cos he was hassling one of our girl friends there - i feel like and idiot
im sorry i got off the point there, but just thought writing this down wud make it easier - i had to tell someone, though all my friends last night saw my idiotic outburst at her when it was no fault of her