Re: Very Long and Complicated

Hi,

I was in your exact shoes about 10 years ago. Same situation: I
married young (23), didn't know myself at all, etc. I met someone
online, we got together, hit it off, and got very close intimately.
She was not married at the time, so she was available whenever I
was. It was, and has always been, the best sex I've ever had.

Unfortunately, that relationship has continued to haunt me to this
very day. I've now been married for 15 years and have two children,
but fantasize ALL the time about starting over. As the other
posters correctly point out, people change and marriages change.
My relationshiop with the affair woman was truly incredible. So
incredible, in fact, that it makes me wonder why I can't have that
kind of relationship in my life everyday.

You're predicament is going to be a tough one to work through. In
general, I agree with the other posters that are basically spanking
you for cheating on your husband. I agree that that is very wrong.
However, I think that if you don't have any children, then get some
counseling, and really decide what is truly important to you.

If you want to leave your husband for this other guy, you will be
emotionally destroyed when you realize that he won't leave his wife
for you. If you leave your husband, leave because of YOU.

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