Re: dont know if ive been cheated but what happened hurt

I have the same sort of question as to whether ive been cheated.

Last night i went to a party in town, me and my girl went clubbing and one of the older lads from work came clubbing with us.

We all get on, and i have no problem her talking to other blokes.

We were walking down the street and i was with my mates and my girlfriend was linking arms with my other mate and another girl was on the other side.

Somehow i got it into my head that my girlfriend liked my mate.

They started dancing together at the club and i was getting a bit annoyed, as in my drunken state im sure my mate danced behind her and maybe digging his groin into her backside or the other way round.

We were all very drunk. Then my mate disappears, so my girlfriend says she needs the toilet, she was gone for about 5 minutes or so.

During this time i was approached by a woman who seeing my pissed off face, asked what the matter was. I said nothing so off she went.

She then came back from the toilet (i think, before my girlfriend came back, but this woman went in after her) and grabbed my hand and asked if i was ok, i said 'im just waiting for my girlfriend'. According to the girlfriend this girl was standing right close to me, i didnt take any notice of this as i didnt really care about this other woman.

She says her past boyfriends have done that though.

So up came my girlfriend and saw this and of course i now apparently was chatting this woman up (i wasnt, as id never hurt her), i stormed off and started crying, my girlfriend came after me and asked whats the matter, so i just told her that 'i thought she fancied my mate and that i cant belive you think i would cheat on you'. We went outside and stood talking for about an hour. She cried on me and told me its me that she loves and my mate aint her type etc.

She was basically having a go at me because women were eyeing me up, thats not my fault is it? I dont care to be with any other girl apart from the one im with now.

It all kicked off the other day when apparently i was looking at some girl who was nothing special, i was just looking, and so i get told about it by her. Yet she is just as bad.

'Hello Pot, Hello Kettle, your looking very black today'

She says it makes her paranoid, yet i was doing nothing wrong.

She is very insecure, in my drunken haze i think she said my mate tried to get her in the toilet to calm her down but i cant remember so i cant really go on that.

Shes just gone back on the pill after the 'time of the month', today she has just text me saying she is bleeding inside, we never had sex last night cause of the pill thing, we messed about but nothing more.

She says her stomach feels bad too.

Naturally i think it might be the drink.

But could my mate and my girlfriend have had sex in the club toilets?

It sounds silly but im very insecure myself.

I was ready to finish it last night, id just had enough of her. And she thought that when i stormed off that i was gonna finish it.

She says her ex's have been bastards. Im not like that, i wouldnt do some of the things they have done to her.

Ive even told my girl that im gonna batter one of them when hes on his own (i was very drunk but nobody deserves what he did to her)

I just dont know what to think.

She says its me she loves.

Maybe im just being paranoid and that all my girlfriend was doing was having a laugh. Maybe there was a queue for the toilets or something or whatever.
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