Dear Ptree, there is the issue of the original conflict between them which has not been explored.It is central to this situation.You have conveniently ignored this in your tirade. Your assumtion that the BF wanted her out so that he could spend time with another girl is also unfounded. Where is the evidence? It could easily be read that he turned to a female friend in his distress and they drew closer over time. You reply is harsh and attacking and lacks balance. I get the impression that you are bringing a lot of your own baggage into this discussion. Your reponses are loaded and edged with anger. Maybe you need to back away from this one.