thanks for your response survivor. i know the problem is with my boyfriend, i was just thinking that she doesn't help the situation because she still gives my boyfriend her phone number and her address and talks to my boyfriend, and i just thought if she knows that it's causing trouble in our relationship, considering she's a nice enough girl, she might do something.
i am not happy and i haven't been happy for a while in this relationship, but my boyfriend doesn't know that because i can't tell him what i think and how i feel most of the time. anyway, that's enough drama, thanks for letting me know what you think, it always helps.