Yes, I'm referring to Tansybelle. I was contacted as well by someone who normally doesn't chat with me privately, but I trusted my own judgement due to the fact that I have talked and shared with Tansybelle behind the scenes for at least a year now, and that I feel that I know more about her than this person did. So I stated that I thought she was "fine". I would think I could even get more amens from other forum members as well about Tansybelle and her character because of their behind the scenes dealings with her.
Did she come down on certain people on the forum for turning it into a cesspool of bad language and behavior...yes. Did she think that this forum was not meant for that...yes. We all wanted it to stop. I even went as far as trying to contact a moderator to see what our rights were as far as dealing with the issue. I was never contacted. So things stayed the same and we had to learn to deal with it. I don't see anything wrong with that.
All I want to see is for this paranoia to stop. We just don't need anymore well-meaning 'I Told You So's', telling us something that we can't figure out for ourselves all in good time. And since I think a year of private talk is a good amount of time, to get to semi-know someone online, I will say that I really like Tansybelle and her almost child-like curiosity and creativity about the world, about Jesus and just stuff in general. I wish more people where like her.