Re: To the Men...

Well how about just throwing some ice cold water on you! I understand your anguish and depression, had it most my life! Lashed out, blamed others, but while it may feel good to rant it does'nt do anything for you in the long run! Face it your depressed thats what its all about, feeling like the you are always getting the shit end of the stick! But first and foremost get your head out of the frikkin TV its demeaning to both men and women ! Women depicted as geourgious big breasted tall and slim einstiens ! While patronizing thier spending power it belittles the average women!
Now men of course are big dumb but funny oafs and thier 12 yr old daughters have to tell them now to act ! And the rest is p 0 r n! throw away your tv!~ Now second, just because you had a bad experience trying to do something positive for your Depression and it turned sour so to speak is no reason to give up ! You dont have to eat goats milk and sour cabbage to get healthy! There are easier diets that kifir and better layed planned avenues of healing ! Read through the site ask questions and take control of your health! Its not about men or women its about people in need of relief from pain and anguish and finding direction in your life! If you really want a good women be a really good man! Make your self strong first! That is your challenge ! I know its not easy to be all you are capable of but you are the only one who can! No one is gonna do it for you ! Your only 21 but sound intelligent enough to make a plan and see it through!
Start with your diet first just by eliminating any junk foods or even highly processed foods ,bread pasta etc.! and go from there! Work on your self make your self happy and others will want to be with you! You dont have to be arnold schwartzenneger to be happy!Remember if you stick around ,dont be afraid to ask questions ,its the only way people learn! Chaz