viaragi, it is your romantic all the time, you had a point good but not so clear. He talk about two male and female being 4 and then relationship rot. I am aware of this and it happened to me. I heard a monk preaching that as a third person as the snake or a devil. wow, as he is saying that out of subconscious and that when there is fear as a sign oh I am working for my food, yep.
I wanted to hear some mentioning this my experience but never so clear to me now. my friend told me one time that, what he read of course, the two in love are four and that because the two do not respect the vitality of what is natural then the opposite to listen and obey the boggy or our fearful gods. yep.
programed as jiddu said in UN meeting and they agreed. oh my God. you can be in love and never have to fall in love. yep. incredible world.