I understand what you are saying here but there is a way that is correct in loving people.
God first and foremost.
Family
Church friends
Others
They are all loved but each in a certain order.
Part of the signs of the times is that christians have left their first love somewhat or completely and of course the order of things start to break down. Family will be neglected, church family not taken care of and so on. None of us can take care of the whole world on our own. But if everyone will do their part, we can make a difference. That's unconditional love in my book.