Re: confused about my marriage

Apparently, your wife thinks you're too needy. You said that you both went to counseling. Was the issue of your neediness addressed?

Yes, there is such a thing as too much attention. For one thing, too many compliments can be smothering. Your wife even said that it was "excessive". So, listen to her and back off some.

Have you gotten help for your depression? If not, talk to your doctor about it. Treatment is available.

Is your wife willing to try counseling again with another counselor? Perhaps the first one wasn't a good fit. Tweet